Obtaining Hitched? How To Make Your Big Day Unique
Authored by-Damm FabriciusWhether you are part of the guest list or the wedding party, there are things you should know about attending a wedding before the day arrives. You can use these wedding tips to understand better your role in the wedding and how to make the special day even more special than it already is.
When the wedding has ended, you will most likely receive gifts from the people who have attended. Make sure that during this time, you and your spouse are together so that you can both show the appreciation that is deserved. Thank everyone regardless of what type of present they give you.
On the day of the wedding, try not to blow things out of proportion by thinking too far into the future. Take advantage of the actual day and enjoy every second of it, as it is going to be an event that you remember for the rest of your life.
Pick food for your wedding that YOU enjoy. Don't worry about what your guests think, it's your day to enjoy! The only thing you should consider, is if you were a vegetarian, then you should offer a few meat options to your guests and not force a tofurken on them.
If you would like to save money on your wedding, you may want to consider having the ceremony and reception in your own home or a family member's home. In addition to saving money, your wedding will feel more personal this way. For summer weddings, you could have it in a large backyard.
Pick food for your wedding that YOU enjoy. Don't worry about what your guests think, it's your day to enjoy! The only thing you should consider, is if you were a vegetarian, then you should offer a few meat options to your guests and not force a tofurken on them.
When photographing a wedding you'll need to wear sensible shoes! That means no high heels for women as you might find yourself standing on a chair or pew and the last thing you want to do is take a tumble and ruin the wedding! Flat shoes with a good tread will keep you stable.
The worst thing that can come out of a wedding is a huge debt. Don't overlook your budget when choosing items for your big day. If you are cash-strapped, look for savings like having your family cater the event or do all the photography. At worst you can ask for cash in lieu of gifts to help offset the costs.
Do not settle for the first wedding location you find--shop around. A wedding is a once in a lifetime experience that you want to make sure is perfect. Picking the wrong venue could be the difference between having the wedding of your dreams or having the wedding of your nightmares.
Transportation is something you shouldn't forget. Limos should be booked well ahead of time. This is the right thing to do if you're serving alcohol at your reception.
To plan a wedding on a small budget, consider asking friends or relatives to donate their help or talent in lieu of a wedding gift. From photography to catering to making your wedding cake. Your loved ones may be thrilled to pitch in with the skills they have to keep your wedding day budget-friendly.
If the bride or groom has served his or her country, incorporate patriotic touches into the wedding ceremony, reception, and decor. Add flashes of bold red, bright blue, and platinum or ivory accents to floral arrangements and centerpieces. Vintage all-American glass bottles, crates, and memorabilia can be subtly used as part of table arrangements or around the guest book.
Discuss sponsorship with vendors who will be servicing your wedding. Many vendors will reduce costs if you allow them to do small things such as their name on the place cards for tables, listing them in the wedding program or perhaps a mention during the reception festivities by the DJ. These small savings can add up quickly.
Do not try to please everyone at your wedding. Some guests don't like chicken, and some family members do not like the type of flowers you like. These things are unimportant in the long run. It is your day and that means making yourself and your future spouse as happy as possible. Sure you can have special meals for special diets; however, it is your day in the sun. Let yourself shine.
For a cheap destination wedding, have your guests fly in as a group. They can even share accommodations for the duration of their stay. Plan a few activities and make reservations as a group. You should also make sure you are getting enough privacy with your future spouse to still enjoy your honey moon.
Consider a buffet for your reception meal. A buffet will cost significantly less than a plated sit down meal. You also will not need to pay for servers to handle your dining experience. In addition, a buffet can offer more choices for your guest to enjoy.
It is a nice gesture to provide wedding favors for everybody, and depending on the size of your wedding and your allotted budget, there are some wallet friendly ideas out there. It can sometimes be more economical to purchase a gift that is high quality as opposed to many small things to fill a favor bag. Items that are a great example of this would be: stationery set, gift certificates, teacup and saucer set, mugs or a box of chocolates. This ensures that you provide a gift for everyone, while still saving some money.
When someone gives you a gift for your wedding, even if you say "thank you" to them personally, always send a card in the mail thanking them for the gift. In this modern world of technology we often think that social media sites or text messages suffice for a thank you from a wedding. This simply is not true and it is tacky to not send thank you cards for wedding presents.
As stated at the beginning of the article, getting married is an exciting time in your life, but unexpected things may happen. Chances are, 10 years after your wedding you won't even remember those "major crisis" moments. If wedding day disasters strike, apply the tips from this article to help remain calm, cool, and collected.
